Tuesday, January 11, 2011

What marriage is


As court orders and legislation authorizing civil marriage for homosexual couples multiply, many Christians are uncertain as to what position they ought take on the question. As a controversy within the Orthodox Presbyterian Church a few years ago illustrated, one can simultaneously object to violations of the 7th Commandment and believe that marriage is a civil right to which all are entitled, regardless of whom one chooses to marry. Thus, a much deeper question lies beneath that of homosexual unions: namely, what is marriage?

In thinking through this question over the last number of years, I have been greatly helped by essays appearing in First Things. As a Protestant, I think these can occasionally lean too much on Roman Catholic natural law assumptions, but generally I find them useful guides to getting past the rhetorical exaggerations which pass for public debate today. The most recent of these was recently posted on the First Things website: "Deciding Not to Decide What Marriage Is." It helps us see the real problem is not gay marriage, but no-fault divorce and the entirely self-centered assumptions of Americans who enter into marriages in these dark days.

The case against homosexual marriage can't be conveniently summarized on a bumper sticker, which is why it behooves Christians, today more than ever, to begin reflecting on their own contributions to the cultural decay which has led us to this pass.


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